by Hassan Elkadi | Feb 10, 2025 | Uncategorized
Being fully present is the most loving thing you can do When you are fully yourself, then your heart is full of YOU. When you are fully present without defending yourself, then your heart is open and YOU naturally shine, just like the sun. You allow yourself to be...
by Hassan Elkadi | Jun 27, 2024 | Uncategorized
We are going to look at how we adapt and as a result lose touch with ourselves. One way of adapting that we all know, to a greater or lesser degree, is to please others; to make others feel comfortable or at ease, to do what is best for the other person. A certain...
by Hassan Elkadi | Mar 30, 2024 | Uncategorized
In part one of this blog, I have described where the need to be seen comes from, how it came about. In this part we are going to zoom in on what happens when the child is not seen, when the child is not positively mirrored. Because that’s where two survival...
by Hassan Elkadi | Mar 23, 2024 | Uncategorized
The need to be seen Our behavior, our actions, are largely determined by the need to be seen. We are often unaware of it, deny it or suppress it, but we all have a need to be seen and that is normal and healthy. But the thing that is a problem, is that we often...
by Hassan Elkadi | Mar 16, 2024 | Uncategorized
What is fear of failure? Let’s first look at what fear of failure is and then how to dissolve it. Fear of failure is also called performance anxiety and it is basically the fear of being rejected, criticized, judged or attacked. For example, if you have the fear...
